Coach Your Team

Coach Your Team

Why would you want to coach your team??

How often do we read that people leave their jobs because of their Managers who they often consider to have poor managerial skills and too large an ego? How much more satisfying is it to have regular interaction with a great Manager?  But what is it that we value and that makes for a great Manager?

According to several pieces of research, the recurrent theme is that we want to be coached and developed by our Managers, and yet many Managers don’t see this as being an important part of their role.

Here are some quick and easy strategies from Monique Valcour in BRW (25/7/2014) to enable you to start thinking more along the coaching lines and in so doing, helping your team along their career development path and yourself in their assessment of you.

“If your job involves leading others, the most important thing you can do each day is to help your team members make progress at work that feels meaningful to them.

To do so, you must understand what drives each person, help build connections between each person’s work and the organisation’s mission and strategic objectives, provide timely feedback, and help each person learn and grow on an ongoing basis. Regularly communicating about development – having coaching conversations – is essential. In fact, according to recent research, the single most important managerial competency that separates highly effective managers from average ones is coaching.

Strangely, at most companies, coaching isn’t part of what managers are formally expected to do. Even though research makes it clear that both employees and job candidates value learning and career development above most other aspects of a job, many managers don’t see it as an important part of their role. Managers think they don’t have the time to have these conversations, and many lack the skill. Yet 70 per cent of employee learning and development happens on the job, not through formal training programs. So if line managers aren’t supportive and actively involved, employee growth is stunted. So are engagement and retention.

Can you teach old-school, results-focused line managers to coach their employees? Absolutely. And the training boosts performance in both directions. It’s a powerful experience to create a resonant connection with another person and help her achieve something she cares about and become the kind of person she wants to be. If there’s anything an effective, resonant coaching conversation produces, it’s positive energy. Hundreds of executive students have reported to me that helping others learn and grow is among the most rewarding experiences they’ve had as managers.

You can be significantly more effective as a manager – and enjoy your job more – by engaging in regular coaching conversations with your team members. As you resolve to support their ongoing learning and development, here are five key tips to get you started.

LISTEN DEEPLY. Consider what it feels like when you’re trying to convey something important to a person who has many things on his mind. Contrast that familiar experience with the more luxurious and deeply validating one of communicating with someone who is completely focused on you and actively listening to what you have to say. You can open a coaching conversation with a question like “How would you like to grow this month?” The language you use is less important than your ability to clear your mind, listen attentively and create a connection that invites your team member to open up and to think creatively.

ASK, DON’T TELL. As a manager, you have a high level of expertise that you’re used to sharing, often in a directive manner. This is fine when you’re clarifying action steps for a project or when people ask you for advice. But in a coaching conversation, it’s essential to restrain your impulse to provide the answers. Open-ended questions, not answers, are the tools of coaching. You succeed as a coach by helping your team members articulate their goals and challenges and find their own answers. Doing so helps people clarify their priorities and devise effective strategies for achieving their goals.

CREATE AND SUSTAIN A DEVELOPMENTAL ALLIANCE. Although your role as a coach is not to provide answers, supporting your team members’ developmental goals and strategies is essential. Let’s say that your employee mentions she’d like to develop a deeper understanding of how your end users experience the services your firm provides. She suggests accompanying an implementation team on a site visit next week, interviewing end users and using the interviews to write an article on end user experience. You agree that this would be valuable for both the employee and the firm. Now, make sure that you give your employee the authorisation, space and resources necessary to carry out her plan. You can also highlight her article as an example of employee-directed learning and development. Follow-up is critical to building trust and to coaching effectively. The more you follow through on supporting your employees, the more productive your coaching becomes, the more your employees’ trust in you grows and the more engaged you all become.

FOCUS ON MOVING FORWARD POSITIVELY. Often the person you’re coaching will get caught up in detailing her frustrations. “I’d love to spend more time building my network, but I have no bandwidth. I’m at full capacity just trying to stay on task with my deliverables. I’d really love to get out to some industry seminars, but I can’t let myself think about it until I can get ahead of these deadlines.” Venting can provide temporary relief, but it doesn’t generate solutions. Take a moment to acknowledge your employee’s frustrations, but then encourage her to think about how to move past them. You might ask, Which of the activities you mention offers the greatest potential for building your knowledge and adding value to the company? Could you schedule two hours of time for developmental activities each week? Are there skills or relationships that would increase your ability to meet your primary deliverables? How could we work more efficiently within the team to free up and protect time for development?

BUILD ACCOUNTABILITY. In addition to following through on any commitments you make to employees, you should also hold your employees accountable for formulating and implementing developmental plans. Accountability increases the positive impact of coaching conversations. If an employee plans to research training programs that will fit his developmental goals, ask him to identify appropriate programs along with their costs and the amount of time he’ll need away from work, and to deliver this information to you by a certain deadline.

Coaching your employees will build stronger bonds between you and your team members, support them in taking ownership over their own learning and help them develop the skills they need to perform at their peak. It also feels good. At a coaching workshop I led recently in Shanghai, an executive said the coaching exercise he’d just participated in “felt like a bungee jump”. I was delighted to see that this man, who had arrived looking reserved and a bit tired, couldn’t stop smiling for the rest of the evening. He was far from the only participant who was visibly energised by the coaching experience.

So go ahead and take the interpersonal jump. You will love the thrill of coaching conversations that catalyse your employees’ growth.”

(Monique Valcour is a professor of management at Écoles des Hautes Études Commerciales Business School in France.)